Carlisle Nelson Forte

  • Born: September 24, 1927
  • Died: March 3, 2020
  • Location: Mount Pleasant, South Carolina

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Mount Pleasant, SC 29464

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Tribute & Message From The Family


Carlisle Nelson Forte was called home to be with the Lord and those that went before him including his beautiful wife Barbara, on Tuesday, March 3, 2020. Carlisle was born September 25, 1927, at home in Awendaw, South Carolina, to Ione Murrell Forte and Carlisle Clifton "Dooley" Forte.

He was preceded in death by his parents, his wife, and his sisters: Murrell Burnette, Mickey Ackerman and Betty Thames

Carlisle grew up in Awendaw when it truly was "the country." The Francis Marion National Forrest and the waters of Bulls Bay were the playground for him and his best friend and first cousin, Lewis White.

Carlisle knew what it was to work. He milked the family's cows, a Jersey & Guernsey, every morning before school. He plowed the corn and vegetable fields with a mule. He was crew on his Daddy's shrimp boat, pulling the single net by hand then picking the catch up from the deck. As a young man, he would walk south on the two lane highway 17 and thumb a ride into Charleston. It was a different time and place.

Carlisle graduated from McClellanville High School and The University of South Carolina. He was employed by Goodyear and the DuPont Company. He was transferred from the Savannah River Site to Wilmington, Delaware. It was there that he met the love of his life, Barbara Link. They were married on February 4, 1961, during a snowstorm.

They raised five children: Celeste Albers (George) of Wadmalaw Island, SC, Melissa Markham (Tony) of Wilmington, DE, Donna Hewitt (Shawn) of Mt Pleasant, SC, Craig Forte (Rick Resing) of Lewes, DE and Mt Pleasant, SC, and Mark Forte of Summerville, SC. He is survived by his cherished grandchildren: Erin Churchill (Aaron), Alyse Hewitt, Gavin Hewitt, Vincent Salerno,, Alexandra Markham and Lindsey Forte.

At the start of their marriage they resided in a one bedroom apartment in Wilmington, Delaware. Carlisle and Barbara soon purchased their first home in a brand new development in North Wilmington. Eventually they settled in Glasgow, Delaware, in a house with enough land for a serious garden. With his children for a workforce, Carlisle began to feed his family from the land. There was a prolific compost pile in the backyard and worm boxes in the basement.

During harvest season it was not uncommon for Barbara and Carlisle to be up all night prepping and canning or freezing the produce of the family's labor. The shelves in the basement groaned with the weight of the preserved tomatoes. We won't speak of the deliciousness of the Silver Queen corn in the freezer!

Carlisle retired from the DuPont Company in 1992, and returned to his home state. He and Barbara set up residence in Mount Pleasant and he began to revitalize the 15 acres of the home place that remained. He double dug beds by hand and commenced to growing vegetables using organic and biodynamic practices. His daughter and granddaughter, Celeste and Erin, helped to make his dream come to fruition.

Carlisle was happiest puttering around with projects related to gardening. Getting into his Volvo station wagon and heading "out to the land" or into town to pick up Erin from school were his greatest pleasures in later life. He enjoyed a long and good and fruitful life.

The family would like to thank the staff of Sommerby Mt Pleasant, for their skilled and loving care. We so appreciate everything that was done on a daily basis to ensure Carlisle's comfort and well being.

We would also like to thank and recognize Crescent Hospice and the wonderful Christ Church family for their care and dedication. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Parkinson Foundation, parkinson.org

There will be a graveside service at Wilson Cemetery on Friday, March 13 at 11:00 AM with a reception to follow at Ocean Grove United Methodist Church, Awendaw, SC.


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Condolence & Memory Journal

I loved my cousin Carlisle! As a little girl I looked forward to their family visits each Summer all the way from Delaware- having no idea where this Delaware place was, but knowing it must be very far since it took a whole year to get there! I loved that he and his sweet wife Barbara always brought me a new baby to play with.
On my Dad's side of the family, he was the youngest child. I was the youngest grandchild so most of my first cousins were adults with children of their own. Few of them spent time getting to know me; Carlisle went out of his way to spend time talking to me every time we saw them.
For making me feel special, I'll always love you!

Posted by Kathy Murrell Peterson - Summerville, SC   March 10, 2020

To Carlisle's dear family,
Though we'll be in Bluffton for our annual convention, our hearts and thoughts will be with you as you lay Carlisle to rest. It has been a joy to know and minister to Carlisle these last almost nine years, and I will miss him - what a fine fella, and a good man!

May God bless you all in this time of loss, and may He give you the comfort of a holy hope for eternal life through our Lord Jesus Christ.

Fr. Ted

Posted by Ted Duvall - Mt. Pleasant, SC   March 09, 2020

I had only met and talked to Mr. Carlisle a few times but he always told me stories about my grandmother Bessie Murrell. Bessie's brother John Nelson Murrell Sr was Ione's father so Ione was my grandmother's niece.and that made Carlisle her great nephew. I remember Ione and Leona coming to visit my grandmother. I will keep this family in my prayers.

Posted by Kathy THOMPSON - Jamestown, SC   March 07, 2020

Carlisle was most certainly a southern gentleman. I was there when he married and he's been part of my life for probably 60 years. I loved hearing his honeyed southern drawl; nobody made my name sound as lovely as he did! RIP, Carlisle.

Posted by Lois Slack - Havre de Grace, MD   March 07, 2020


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