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Cecil "Kirky" M. Kirkland, Jr.

Cecil "Kirky" M. Kirkland, Jr.
  • July 5, 1956 - September 29, 2018
  • Charleston, South Carolina
  • Trinity United Methodist Church
    273 Meeting Street
    Charleston, SC 29401

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“From the moment I met Kirky Kirkland I thought he was an amazing person! He always made me laugh and smile and he always seemed to brighten up the...Read More »
1 of 48 | Posted by: Daniel James - Friend

“I didn't know Kirky well, but he did lots of the wallpaper in my house. I was shocked to hear of his death. Kirky was always cheerful and funny, a...Read More »
2 of 48 | Posted by: Lynn McBride - Charleston, SC

“I was away when Kirky passed. Just heard from a mutual friend. Great guy...he will be missed. Prayers to his family ”
3 of 48 | Posted by: Scott McClain - CHARLESTON, SC

“Kirky was one of the best and lively people I have ever met. He will be sorely missed. So it goes. ”
4 of 48 | Posted by: Andrew Kling - Ladson, SC

“Stephen,thinking of you and your mother. Now I know where your caring for all people comes from...God and Cecil. YouYour Christian Friend,Wally Jean...Read More »
5 of 48 | Posted by: WALLY Jean Stone - Columbia, SC

“My heartfelt sympathies go out to the Kirkland family. Kirky and I were classmates, bandmates, and friends throughout high school and beyond. The one...Read More »
6 of 48 | Posted by: A friend

“The CEO will most definitely be missed by many! Rest in peace Kirky, Taylor and I are so sad to lose such a wonderful neighbor and friend. My...Read More »
7 of 48 | Posted by: Anita Durden - Charleston, SC

“well Kirky, I hope by now you have found something to paint while you have transitioned to another place in time. though you have had your share of...Read More »
8 of 48 | Posted by: Linda lilley Price - Charleston, SC

“Kirky was a hoot! From Middleton to Spartanburg Methodist to sitting on his front porch a few weeks ago reminiscing, he was still the same funny,...Read More »
9 of 48 | Posted by: Edward Murray

“My heart is broken about the news of Kirky's passing. It seems like only yesterday that Kirky and Stephen visited their relatives in Alabama during...Read More »
10 of 48 | Posted by: Kim Trawick Webb - Ashford, AL

11 of 48 | Posted by: A friend

“I am so saddened to learn of Kirky's death. It seems like only yesterday he was a little boy laughing and running around Trinity with Stephen. Sunday...Read More »
12 of 48 | Posted by: Lorna Bagwell - Dahlonega, GA

“So sorry for your loss. May the family have peace and rest from Almighty God during this time.Porter ”
13 of 48 | Posted by: A friend

“I am very sad to learn of Kirky's passing. He was always a kind and helpful person and so happy! He always spoke to you in the hallways at school-and...Read More »
14 of 48 | Posted by: Jeanette Younkin Kleier - GA

“My deepest condolences to the family. I lost my uncle just last month. Same age as Kirky, also from cancer. Jeremiah 29:11, 12 assures us that God is...Read More »
15 of 48 | Posted by: Mia

“Kirky was a devoted, proud member of Trinity, whom you could always count on for a Trustees repair or simply his presence at a church event. He loved...Read More »
16 of 48 | Posted by: Brooke Gerbracht - charleston, SC

“He would say to me when we would say good bye I love you like a cousin .Loved to talk to him, he always made me laugh with his stories. Praying for...Read More »
17 of 48 | Posted by: Mike Smith - SC

“This is so hard for me as I'm sure it is for so many others. I put down my relationship to Kirky as a friend, but he was so much more than that. I...Read More »
18 of 48 | Posted by: Charlie Nelson - Summerville, SC

“I am so sorry to hear of Kirky's passing. I remember him fondly with his larger than life personality and his story-teling. Prayers of comfort for...Read More »
19 of 48 | Posted by: Lauren Scarborough - Chattanooga, TN

“I am Kirky's cousin and I and my sister Kaye grew up with Kirky and Stephen. We are all pretty close in age and spent a lot of time together summers...Read More »
20 of 48 | Posted by: Elizabeth Gaill Tanner (Ross) - CO

“May our all knowing, all powerful, all present God surround you with His comfort, peace and love now and in the coming days. ”
21 of 48 | Posted by: Cotton and Dee Kirkland - Lugoff, SC

“Kirky will be missed but not forgotten. Our friendship goes back almost our entire lives. Thanks for the memories. I love you, brother. Mean it. ”
22 of 48 | Posted by: Gene Scarborough - Santee, SC

“I was saddened to hear of Kirky's passing. He was a very caring person. I applaud him for keeping the Middleton Class of '74 informed of events and...Read More »
23 of 48 | Posted by: Johnnie Mae Leach-Gibson - SC

“Kirky was as everyone says " full of life, love, laughter and pure giving of the heart and soul with all of his might. From the time we were little...Read More »
24 of 48 | Posted by: Juleanne Judy Bryan - SC - Family

“Kirky hung every inch of wallpaper in my house for over 30 years! Not only was a professional, he was fun to be around. He will be missed by many. ”
25 of 48 | Posted by: Ken and Teresa Smith - CHARLESTON, SC

“I've known Kirky for over 40 years and I can honestly say he was the kindest and happiest man I've ever met. I really can't ever remember seeing him...Read More »
26 of 48 | Posted by: Robin King-Murray - Johns Island, SC

“Praying that Kirky's family find comfort during this time, knowing that Kirky is no longer suffering, and has found peace with his Heavenly Father! ”
27 of 48 | Posted by: Pam and Bubba Meetze - Columbia, SC

“I am devastated to hear this about kirky he will be missed by many,so many memories he left us . ”
28 of 48 | Posted by: Dwayne Trawick - Dothan, AL

“The visitation at Stuhrs will be MONDAY from 5 to 7 PM.Mom won't be able to be there Monday evening but she will receive friends Tuesday at 10 AM at...Read More »
29 of 48 | Posted by: Stephen Kirkland - Columbia, SC

“Had a lot of wonderful times with Kirky in the Middleton Band. He was a Great longtime friend. ”
30 of 48 | Posted by: Stan Douglas - Lyman, SC - Friend

“Haven't seen Kirky since high school,but remember him fondly. I know he will truly be missed. My condolences to his family.Shawn Forbes Davis ”
31 of 48 | Posted by: Shawn Forbes Davis - Santee, SC

“Kirky was one of a kind. He was smart, funny, and larger than life! He was a storyteller like no other, honest, and he looked out for others. We need...Read More »
32 of 48 | Posted by: Samantha Goldberg - Johns Island, SC

“True one of a kind. He was my neighbor for 20 years and he was the best. Always had a story. Gone way to soon. Proud to call you my friend. Love you...Read More »
33 of 48 | Posted by: Slade Stokes - Charleston, SC

“I had the pleasure of meeting Kirky while working at Trinity UMC. He was so kind and a real joy to be around..My condolences go out to his family and...Read More »
34 of 48 | Posted by: Elisa Tunno - Mount Pleasant, SC

“Uncle Kirky I miss you so much! It doesn't seem real but I want you to know in heaven that I'm here with Rhondy and she'll never be alone! I'm so...Read More »
35 of 48 | Posted by: Caroline Culbertson - Westminster, SC

“For you my dear friend. I miss you so much already. My deepest sympathies to your family and of course Rhonda. RIP. I love you. Becky ”
36 of 48 | Posted by: Becky Dana - Charleston, SC

“Kirky, you will be truly missed. I loved listening to your stories. You always made me laugh. I didn't grow up with you or go to high school with you...Read More »
37 of 48 | Posted by: Becky Dana - Charleston, SC

“I am so sorry to hear about Kirky , he was such a wonderful person. I pray the Lord gives you a peace and comfort through this time knowing he is...Read More »
38 of 48 | Posted by: Cindy Grady Nigels - chas, SC

“I had no idea Kirky was even sick! So very sad....we go back to the early 80's. Kirky is a legacy...he will be sorely missed. ”
39 of 48 | Posted by: Mary Cooper - Charleston, SC

“I have loved Kirky since his early childhood. I don't ever recall seeing him without a smile on his face. I fondly remember laughing with him in our...Read More »
40 of 48 | Posted by: Jack Fanning - Charleston, SC

“Always fun, always funny, always caring. Kirky was truly one of a kind- and he will be missed. He was the unifier and connector for Middleton High...Read More »
41 of 48 | Posted by: Sue Hofford - Greenville, SC

“My heart is broken. You will be missed dearly. Love you like a cousin. ”
42 of 48 | Posted by: Peter Sharkey - Johns Island, SC

“May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. ”
43 of 48 | Posted by: Jimmy Gray - Ravene,, SC

“I have years of wonderful and fun memories with kirky. Can't post them here though. He knows. Losing Kirky leaves an empty space in Charleston. He...Read More »
44 of 48 | Posted by: Reena Firetag - Charleston, SC

“Rest. Rest. Rest brother. You fought hard ”
45 of 48 | Posted by: Bob Schor - Coworker

“Omgosh I'm so sorry to hear this!! I had no idea!! Rest In Peace my friend!! ”
46 of 48 | Posted by: Maggie Zayas-Bazan - SC - Friend

“I was completely surprised to hear of Kirkys passing,I didn't know he was sick.He was always so upbeat and Happy to see and be seen. RIP dear friend. ”
47 of 48 | Posted by: Patricia Rabicki - CHARLESTON, SC

“Kirky was one of a kind, no doubt. He had so much energy and always ready to go. Unfortunately, I haven't seen him in years. So very sorry to his...Read More »
48 of 48 | Posted by: Gail Landry - Batesburg, SC

Cecil "Kirky" M. Kirkland, Jr., 62, of Charleston, South Carolina, entered into eternal rest Friday, September 28, 2018 after a brief battle with cancer. His Funeral Service will be held Tuesday, October 2, 2018 in Trinity United Methodist Church at 11:00 a.m; his mother will receive friends one hour prior to the service. Entombment will follow in Mount Pleasant Memorial Gardens. There will be a gathering of friends on Monday from 5:00 p.m. to 7:00 p.m. at J. Henry Stuhr, Inc. Downtown Chapel.

Kirky was born July 5, 1956 in Charleston, South Carolina, son of Lenora Tanner Kirkland and the late Cecil M. Kirkland, Sr. He was an Eagle Scout and a 1974 graduate of Middleton High School. Kirky attended Spartanburg Methodist College and the College of Charleston. He was the owner of Kirk-Co Wallcoverings, a stage hand with I.A.T.S.E., and a former bail bondsman. He was a lifelong member of Trinity United Methodist Church where he served on the Board of Trustees. He devoted many hours to working at Trinity as a volunteer.

Kirky was cheerful, outgoing, and generous with everyone he met. He was a great storyteller and self-proclaimed "Governor of West Ashley." Kirky never met a stranger.

He is survived by his mother of Charleston, SC; a brother, Stephen D. Kirkland (Pam) of Columbia, SC; a beloved girlfriend, Rhonda Steward of Charleston, SC; and many loving relatives and friends.

The family appreciates all of the support from Roper Five South Nursing Staff. Memorials may be made to Trinity United Methodist Church, 273 Meeting Street, Charleston, SC 29401.