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Mary Anne Lilienthal Graf
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  • Roper Hospice Cottage
    676 Wando Park Boulevard
    Mount Plesant, SC 29464

Pause Days Gone By by Bruce H. Zimmerman (ASCAP)
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“So sorry to hear about MaryAnnes passing. She and her family were always there when you needed them. They were my husbands adopted family for our...Read More »
1 of 13 | Posted by: Lynn Gonzalez - Columbia, SC

“Very sorry for your loss GOD BLESS YOU! ”
2 of 13 | Posted by: John Hope - Wad Island, SC

“We were so sorry to hear this news. David and I are keeping the family in our prayers during this difficult time. ”
3 of 13 | Posted by: David and Nancy Giotta - SC

“Mary Ann was such a big help to Ronald during his hard times. Both Mary Ann and John were good to Ronald and Me. ”
4 of 13 | Posted by: Gloria Burbage - Awedaw, SC

“She will be missed by us all. Love and prayers to all of you. ”
5 of 13 | Posted by: Esther Moseley Lowndes - SC

“Dear Kat, Mr.Arnie & family, I was shocked to hear of Mrs.Marianne's passing . She will be missed and remembered as a sweet lady that was always...Read More »
6 of 13 | Posted by: Cathy Hyatt - Charleston, SC

“Our sincere condolences to the family of Ms. Mary Anne. God bless you. ”
7 of 13 | Posted by: Wil Butler - North Charleston, SC

“My condolences to the family. Reflect on the memories you have of your loved one. May the God of all comfort give you His peace during this difficult...Read More »
8 of 13 | Posted by: A friend

“A truly sweet soul has left this earth! ”
9 of 13 | Posted by: Jan Freeman - Summerville, SC

“Maryanne was a lovely person, we had many great laughs during her UDC tenure - she will be missed. Prayers for family as they process this loss. ”
10 of 13 | Posted by: Jean Singletary - Charleston, SC

“My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May the memories of Mary and the love of family and friends surround you and give...Read More »
11 of 13 | Posted by: A friend

“Such a lovely lady. So special. Prayers for all ”
12 of 13 | Posted by: Harriett Grady - Charleston, SC

“You will be sorely missed, such a beautiful soul."To our Absent Members" ”
13 of 13 | Posted by: David Schrader - Charleston, SC

Mary Anne Lilienthal Graf, 87, of Charleston, South Carolina, wife of Col. Arnold H. Graf, USA, (Ret.) entered into eternal rest Wednesday, June 5, 2019. The family will receive friends Sunday, June 9, 2019 in J. HENRY STUHR INC., WEST ASHLEY CHAPEL, 3360 Glenn McConnell Parkway from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. The Charleston Elks Lodge will conduct a member ceremony for her at 7:30 p.m. Her Funeral Service will be held Tuesday, June 11, 2019 in Old St. Andrews Parish Church, 2604 Ashley River Road at 11:00 a.m. Interment will follow in Old St. Andrew's Parish Churchyard.

Mary Anne was born April 17, 1932 in Charleston, South Carolina, daughter of the late Walter King Muckenfuss and Ella Mae Moorer Muckenfuss. She was a retired City of Charleston Mayor's Office administrative assistant .She was an active member of Old St. Andrews Parish Church and a member of it's St. Mary's and St. Agnes' Guild. She was a past president of the Charleston Chapter of the SC Genealogical Society and a member of the Eliza Lucas Pinckney Chapter National Society Daughters of the American Revolution.

She is survived by her husband, Col. Arnold H. Graf, USA, (Ret.); four daughters, Kathryn L. Winiger (Walter), Leslie L. Howard (David), Ellen L. Guy (John), Maryanne Aimar (Charles); eight grandchildren, ten great-grandchildren; step-daughter, Jenny G. Patterson (Wayne), step-son, David W. Graf (Jean Marie), step-daughter, Laurie S. Harvin, step-son, Paul E. Graf, step-daughter, Ellen G. Hart (Jonathan), step-daughter, Amy E. Graf-Resto (Eduardo); eight step-grandchildren, and one step-great-grandchild.

Memorials may be made to Roper Hospice Cottage, 676 Wando Park Boulevard, Mt. Pleasant, SC, 29464.

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