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Valarie Henley Bilinsky Lauder

Valarie Henley Bilinsky Lauder
  • October 9, 1939 - August 13, 2017
  • Mount Pleasant, South Carolina

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“My thoughts and prayers go out to Valerie's family. She was one of the nicest people I ever met. She will be sadly missed. ”
1 of 10 | Posted by: Paul Leszczynski - Jacksonville, FL

“My condolences, Mr. Lauder. The times I saw you and Valerie, I thought what a terrific lady she was. I'm sorry I was unable to see you last night. I...Read More »
2 of 10 | Posted by: Charlie Dawson - Charleston, SC

“I am saddened to hear of Valerie's passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to Tom and the whole family. RIP sweet Valerie. ”
3 of 10 | Posted by: Dennis Perry - Evans, GA

“I am so sad to hear of Valarie's death. I always considered her a friend during our many years working in the commissary at the AF base. My sincere...Read More »
4 of 10 | Posted by: Helen Brown-Chavez - Tucson, AZ

“I am so sorry for your great loss. May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn" sustain your family during this...Read More »
5 of 10 | Posted by: CW

“You and Ms Valerie meant the world to me. I've had a lot of Supervisors in my life, never had another like Ms Val....she was loving understand, and...Read More »
6 of 10 | Posted by: Janet and Greg Roberson - NC

“Steve and Ricky, I am sorry for your loss, you guys are in my thoughts and prayers. ”
7 of 10 | Posted by: Angie Gutterman (Martin) - SC

“In all of my 33 years of Federal Service and many, many supervisors after Valarie, Valarie was my most favorite Supervisor and friend. Valarie was...Read More »
8 of 10 | Posted by: Shirley Hill - Goose Creek, SC

“Mr. Lauder, my prayers are with you and your entire family. May Valarie rest in peace.Sam and Rosa Johnson ”
9 of 10 | Posted by: A friend

“We had lots of fun and great times with Valarie and Tony with Mrs Henley in Springdale , AR . Also she would fly home and take care of Mrs Henley...Read More »
10 of 10 | Posted by: Ron & Addie Danehower - Benton, AR

Valarie Henley Bilinsky Lauder, of Mount Pleasant, South Carolina, wife of Thomas W. Lauder, died Sunday, August 13, 2017. A visitation will be held in J. HENRY STUHR, INC., MOUNT PLEASANT CHAPEL, 1494 Mathis Ferry Road, on Wednesday, August 16, 2017 from 6:00 pm until 8:00 pm. The funeral service and interment will be private and held at a later date.

Valarie was born October 9, 1939 in Vilonia, Arkansas, daughter of the late Thomas Henley and Lora Allen Henley. She retired from the Department of Defense after 27 years as a civil service management specialist.

In addition to her husband, Valarie is survived by her sons, Ricky Bilinsky of Summerville, SC, and Steven Bilinsky of Bluffton, SC; her step-daughter, Gay L. Moseley; her step-sons, Michael Lauder, Brian Lauder, and Bruce Lauder; her sisters, Addie Danehower of Benton, Arkansas, and Wanda Bales of Carson City, CO. She was preceded in death by her former husband, Anthony Bilinsky.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Hospice of Charleston, 4975 LaCross Road, Suite 200, North Charleston, SC 29406.